
In most private adoptions, the birth mother must give her written permission for her child to be adopted. This is usually referred to as adoption consent. In some states, the consent is called a relinquishment, surrender, or placement agreement. Many states require that the birth mother wait for a period of time before a consent to adoption can be signed (e.g., 24, 48, or 72 hours or more after birth). This is called a waiting period.
In many states, if a parent changes her mind about her child’s adoption, she may revoke her consent within a specific timeframe. This is called the revocation period. The laws about revocation periods vary from state to state. In some states, the placing parents have a 30-day revocation period. In twenty-five states, there is no revocation period at all, which means the adoption consent is irrevocable as soon as it is signed.
While adoption consent and revocation are separate issues in state law, it’s difficult to discuss one without first explaining the other. To make consent and revocation laws a little easier to understand, we divided the state laws into four categories.
No Waiting Period, No Time to Revoke ConsentThese states do not have a waiting period. Placing parents may sign the adoption any time after their child is born and their consent is irrevocable once they do.
No Waiting Period, Time to Revoke ConsentIn these states, consent can be given at any time after birth, but there is some period during which the placing parent is allowed to change their mind about the adoption.
Waiting Period, No Time to Revoke ConsentThese states require a waiting period before consent can be given, typically 12 hours to 72 hours after birth. Once the consent is signed, there is no revocation period, and it is irrevocable and final.
Waiting Period, Time to Revoke ConsentThese states have a waiting period before consent can be given and a revocation period after consent. The specific lengths of the waiting and revocation periods vary by state.
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In all states, once the revocation period has passed, the placing parent may not revoke her adoption consent unless she can prove that she was defrauded or under duress when she agreed to sign the adoption consent or relinquishment.

